Urinary Incontinence and Thought Control

There is a common belief that when one is attempting to relieve themselves but cannot, they should think of running water. The thought is that the sounds of a waterfall or river will help your body begin to urinate. If this is true, should people suffering from urinary incontinence avoid specific thoughts to help prevent unexpected urination?

What is Incontinence?

Incontinence is defined as a loss of bladder control and the inability to control urination. Though this definition is all-encompassing, there are many different types of urinary incontinence.

Different Types of Incontinence

Stress incontinence: A leak in urine due to movement or activity such as laughing, sneezing, running, or lifting. 

Urge incontinence: A form of incontinence that happens after a strong, sudden urge to urinate that someone is unable to delay. 

Overflow incontinence: Incontinence that occurs when a weak bladder is past full. While the person often feels no need to urinate, they can begin leaking urine.  

Functional incontinence: A type of incontinence that is defined by a person aware they need to urinate, but because of a physical or mental disability, they are unable to reach the bathroom. 

Mixed incontinence: As the name suggests, mixed incontinence is usually a combination of two other forms of incontinence. Most often, mixed incontinence is a combination of stress and urge incontinence.

Not all these types of incontinence have the same causes or can be treated with the same medications. With that in mind, studies on all forms of incontinence have shown no correlation between incontinence being triggered by specific thoughts. However, one mental effect of urinary incontinence that influences all these groups is its toll on mental health.

Urinary Incontinence and Mental Health

Studies show that those who suffer from urinary incontinence are more likely to suffer from anxiety and depression. Frequently, those dealing with incontinence can also experience shame and a drop in self-confidence due to their condition. Urinary incontinence can make it difficult to go to social outings or stressful to be away from your home for extended periods. People who once held very social lives will often reject attending social gatherings for fear of having an accident at a public event. This behavior can take a toll on mental health, and it is crucial to seek help from a mental health professional counselor.

At Personally Delivered, we know the difficulties those dealing with urinary incontinence face. Not only daily stress but also the feeling that you can’t participate in all of the activities you love. With our array of catheter supplies, protective underwear, liners, and pads, we hope to give you back a sense of normalcy and self-confidence. 

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Urinary Incontinence and Mental Health

Mental health is essential at every stage of life and affects how we think, feel, and act because it includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. Trying to manage a urinary incontinence condition can leave one feeling mentally exhausted. Experiencing a urinary incontinence accident in public can be highly embarrassing and potentially lead to psychological consequences.

The Basics About Urinary Incontinence

Urinary incontinence is also referred to as bladder leakage and is a more common condition that most often comes with age. The involuntary loss of urine is not a disease itself but rather a symptom of another underlying condition.

There are three types of urinary incontinence:

  1. Stress incontinence occurs when urine leaks happen when you cough, sneeze, jump, or laugh, due to weakened pelvic floor muscles.
  2. Urge incontinence, also called overactive bladder, typically occurs in older men and women. When the bladder muscles weaken or its urine-holding capacity decreases, the bladder uncontrollably contracts, causing an intense urge to urinate, resulting in leaks.
  3. Mixed incontinence is a combination of both urge and stress incontinence.

Common underlying conditions that cause urinary incontinence:

  1. Pregnancy can cause hormonal changes, and the additional weight on the bladder can lead to stress incontinence.
  2. Aging of the bladder muscle can decrease its capacity to hold urine.
  3. An enlarged prostate gland can cause the bladder muscle to malfunction and lead to urge incontinence.
  4. A hysterectomy involves removing the uterus, which may damage the supporting pelvic floor muscles, leading to urinary incontinence. 
  5. Neurological conditions such as Parkinson’s disease, Multiple sclerosis, a spinal cord injury, or a stroke can cause interference with the nervous system and throw nerve signals involved in bladder control out of whack, causing urinary incontinence.

The Importance of Mental Health and Wellness

woman standing next to a tree with purple flowers breathing in the fresh airMental health is essential to living a healthy, balanced life and determines how we handle our lives’ stressors. It also impacts the relationships we form with others and the choices and decisions we make daily. Our thinking, mood, and behaviors can be affected throughout our lives if we experience mental health problems. Being emotionally healthy can help promote productivity and effectiveness in activities like work or caregiving.

The Connection Between Urinary Incontinence and Mental Health

Because urinary incontinence can feel embarrassing for some, it can often lead to depression and anxiety. On the flip side, if you are suffering from depression and anxiety, your urinary incontinence could be the precursor to urinary incontinence. 

Those who suffer from urinary incontinence might experience a considerable impact on their dignity and self-confidence. The physical discomfort and psychological effects can lead to isolation to avoid possible embarrassment in social situations. Outings, parties, and other regular social activities that were once enjoyed may become challenging to handle for fear of having an accident in public. The greater the urinary incontinence condition is can likely contribute to a greater degree of depression.

Signs of a Mental Health Concern

If you or someone you know are struggling with a urinary incontinence condition, there are some signs to watch out for that may suggest you need some professional guidance. Remember, good mental health is essential for your entire mind and body to function at its optimal level.

woman experiencing stress while looking in the mirrorSome signs of mental health issues are:

  • Overly tired with low energy
  • Sleeping problems
  • Extreme mood swings
  • Missed work or appointments
  • Decreased enjoyment of life
  • Inability to think or concentrate
  • Isolation from family and friends
  • Notable changes in eating habits
  • Alcohol or drug abuse
  • Suicidal thoughts or behaviors

Mental illness can be temporary or last a long time but is critical to address. It is essential to pay attention to any of these changes and contact your doctor or therapist for treatment. If you or anyone you know have displayed suicidal thoughts or behaviors, get help right away. The National Suicide Prevention Hotline is 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or use the chat function at suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat

At-Home Treatment for Urinary Incontinence

As we mentioned earlier, urinary incontinence can be caused by various factors such as pregnancy, an enlarged prostate, or a neurological condition, to name a few. However, there are ways to manage urinary incontinence right from your own home.

  • Kegel exercises, or pelvic floor exercises, can help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. When the pelvic floor muscles are in shape, the uterus and bladder are appropriately supported to prevent accidental urinary leaks.
  • Diet plays a role in the severity of a urinary incontinence condition. A poor diet lacking proper nutrients can lead to an aggravated urinary tract. Avoiding foods and beverages like caffeine, alcohol, artificial sweeteners, and some spicy foods may improve your symptoms. And remember to drink plenty of water to flush your system.
  • Bladder training can help lengthen the time between trips to the restroom until you are only urinating every 2-4 hours. Keeping a bladder journal is a helpful tool that can help you and your doctor better understand your condition.
  • assortment of incontinence padsUrinary incontinence products help manage your condition no matter how much absorbency you require. There are various urinary incontinence products available for light, moderate, and maximum absorbencies and different styles for activity types. You can learn more and read in-depth information about incontinence pads, absorbency levels, styles, and even how to choose the correct size and fit on our All About Incontinence Pads blog post.

Good mental health is essential for us to be balanced emotionally, physically, and psychologically. Urinary incontinence, combined with poor mental health, is worse than either condition alone. It is imperative to treat both of these conditions as early as possible to avoid a significant impact on your health and quality of life.

For any questions related to the incontinence products we carry or for more information related to urinary incontinence, our Personally Delivered Product Experts are just a phone call away and ready to help. For more serious concerns related to the signs of poor mental health we outlined above, immediately contact your doctor or therapist.

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The Challenges of Caregiving

As the population ages, caregiving is being provided more and more by people other than healthcare professionals such as family members or other close friends. Often, these family members or friends do not refer to themselves as a formal “caregiver” and therefore do not think about the support they also need in this role.

A lot of time and energy goes into caregiving, which may lead a caregiver to neglect their own needs. Making time for self-care can be a challenge for many caregivers. If you are a caregiver, it is essential to preserve your health and well-being. Caring for a loved one can put a strain on even the most resilient people.

A Caregiver Defined

elderly woman looking off in the distance next to a sign that says 5.7 million Americans are living with Alzheimer'sA caregiver is someone who provides basic care to someone that has a chronic medical condition, an illness that lasts for a long time or doesn’t go away.

Examples of some chronic conditions include:

  • Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia
  • Any cancer
  • Arthritis
  • The after-effects of a stroke or injury
  • Multiple sclerosis
  • Diabetes

The caregiver helps the person with many tasks such as meal preparation, eating, shopping, cleaning, administering medicine, bathing, and dressing. Above all, two of the most important things a caregiver provides is companionship and emotional support.

Being a Caregiver Can Be Rewarding Yet Also Stressful

Many caregivers are friends or family members of the person who needs care. Some grown adults feel an innate responsibility to care for their aging parents and often cherish this time as a caregiver. Their parent provided for them, and now this is their opportunity to return the blessing. It can bring a sense of joy and fulfillment, yet it can also pose significant challenges.

But a shift in roles and emotions is almost certain. It is natural to feel exhausted, frustrated, angry, or alone. The emotional and physical stress of caregiving is common and referred to as caregiver stress.

People who experience caregiver stress can be vulnerable to changes in their own health. Risk factors for caregiver stress include:

  • Living with the person you are caring for
  • A higher number of hours spent caregiving
  • Lack of choice in being a caregiver
  • Having fewer years of formal education
  • Social isolation
  • Having depression
  • Financial difficulties
  • Lack of coping skills

Caring for a loved one who is seriously ill is never easy. You are often “on-call” almost all the time and feel your own free time is gone. It may be hard for you to juggle the different parts of your life, such as work, chores, and caring for the ill person.

Caregiving is also hard because you will be the one that sees changes in your loved one and find it difficult to see them the same way you did before they became ill. For example, if you are the caregiver for someone that develops Alzheimer’s, they may not recognize you at times, develop behavioral problems, or begin to suffer from incontinence. Alzheimer’s and incontinence can add an additional level of caregiving that can be very difficult to manage.

Common Signs of Caregiver Stress

stressed male sitting on a couch holding hands near faceWhen negative feelings start to take over and begin to disrupt your life, your health could suffer. Issues like depression, anxiety, and stress overload can take a toll on one’s health. A caregiver may not realize that their own health and well-being are being compromised because they are so caught up in caring for their loved one.

Signs of caregiver stress include:

  • Feeling overwhelmed or helpless
  • Irritability or anxiety
  • Getting too much sleep or not enough sleep
  • Gaining or losing weight
  • Social withdrawal
  • Losing interest in activities you used to enjoy
  • Feeling sad
  • Having frequent headaches, bodily pain, or other physical problems
  • Unhealthy behaviors such as abusing alcohol, drugs, or prescription medications

Too much stress over a long period as a caregiver can harm your health, which increases your risk of medical problems, such as heart disease and diabetes. If you think you are suffering from caregiver stress, call your doctor. They can help you manage your feelings and stress with various tools such as stress management techniques, counseling, or medicine.

Tips for Dealing With Caregiver Stress

Caregiving can be stressful, complicated, and time-consuming, so it is vital to take advantage of the many resources and tools available to help you provide care for your loved one. Remember, if you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to care for anyone else.

Some ways to help manage caregiver stress include:

  • Accept help. If a friend offers to take the person you care for on a walk a couple of times a week, run an errand for you, or cook, take them up on it.
  • Believe you are doing your best.  No one is perfect and it is ok to feel guilty sometimes. Focus on knowing that you are doing the best you can and making the best decisions you are able to.
  • Set realistic goals. Make lists and a daily routine. By breaking up large tasks into smaller ones, you will feel a better sense of accomplishment.
  • Look for resources. Many communities have classes specifically about the disease your loved one is facing or offer caregiving services such as transportation and meal delivery.
  • Join a support group. People in support groups understand what you may be going through and can provide validation and encouragement. Friendships can also be created in support groups that can provide meaningful connections when you may be feeling alone.
  • stethoscope and pen sitting on a medical chartPractice self-care. Find time for physical activity, eat a healthy diet, drink plenty of fluids, and set goals for a good sleep routine. Many caregivers have issues with sleeping and not getting quality sleep over a long period can lead to health issues.
  • Schedule your routine doctor visits. It is essential to get recommended vaccinations and screenings. Make sure to tell your doctor that you’re a caregiver and don’t hesitate to mention any concerns or symptoms you have. No one should ever have to suffer in silence.

If you are a caregiver and are struggling to manage incontinence for your loved one, we want to help make life a bit easier for you. Our wide selection of absorbent incontinence products are sure to help you and your loved one enjoy more out of each day and sleep better all through the night. With fewer product changes, less laundry, and more uninterrupted nights, you’ll have more time and energy for other caregiving activities or even your own wellness and personal care.

If you want to learn more about our adult incontinence products, need advice on what products to try, or have questions about incontinence, our Personally Delivered Incontinence Product Experts are just a phone call away.

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Caregivers During a Pandemic: Can COVID-19 Spread Through Urine?

We are at a point in the coronavirus pandemic where every American has been impacted in some way. With no clear end in sight, it is important that everyone looks at their circumstances and protects themselves and their families as best as they can. Personally Delivered works to provide caregivers all the products they need to offer the best care possible. It is vital that during the coronavirus pandemic caregivers take extra precautions as they are at a higher risk of infection than most people. There is an increased risk of contracting COVID-19 because they need to come in close contact with the person they care for. Many caregivers are also curious if their risk level is higher due to contact they may have with the bodily secretions of the person they care for.

Be Prepared to Protect Yourself and Others

If you or someone you love is taking care of someone with fecal or urinary incontinence, it’s important to understand the steps to protect the caregiver and the person they are providing care for during these uncertain times. With new data coming out at a rapid rate, medical experts agree that the highest likelihood of COVID-19 transmission remains through airborne droplets via coughing, sneezing, or breathing. Most experts agree that transmission risk is low through urine or the stool but it is still something that should be avoided. In addition to the purchase of typical incontinence supplies, it is important to be stocked up with disposable gloves, which can be changed after each contact with a vulnerable person. A collage of incontinence products Personally Delivered offers that caregivers tend to use with their patients

Pay Attention to Mental Health

A female caregiver speaking and listening with an elderly woman as they sit on a couchIn addition to caring for the physical needs of a person with incontinence during the pandemic, it’s vital that caregivers pay close attention to the mental health of a vulnerable person. A person who knows they are at a higher risk is more likely to experience anxiety and fear throughout the pandemic. The best thing a person can do is keep the lines of communication open and ensure that the person always has all the incontinence supplies they should need readily available.

Watch Stress Levels Associated With Incontinence

Additional stress can lead to more severe issues with incontinence. Many people with overactive bladder syndrome also suffer from some form of anxiety. It is pivotal that caregivers take the mental health of the person they care for as seriously as the physical. Ultimately, the most important thing a caregiver can do for the person they care for is to ensure that they are taking every precaution to avoid infection in their own lives. Once a person takes care of themselves, they can work on providing the best care possible to others.

If you are a caregiver and have any questions related to the incontinence supplies we offer to help protect you and the person you are providing care for during these uncertain times, our Personally Delivered Product Experts are just a phone call away and ready to help.

We care about you, your safety, and your health during this questionable and concerning time. That is why we make it easy for you to shop online with us and avoid the stores. Make sure you check out our Automatic Delivery Program and never worry about running out of your home delivery medical supplies again!

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Staying Optimistic During Hard Times

Staying optimistic can be very difficult when times are tough right now during the COVID-19 pandemic. You may have just lost your job, your home, or even worse, a loved one. Are you worried about your health? Do you feel helpless or defeated? There is so much news being pushed on us each and every day and that can make it hard for us to see the silver lining in any of it. Whatever you are facing, optimism seems as if it is something that is not possible to keep during this time in our world.

Even when the present moment feels as if everything is completely falling apart, being hopeful about the future is what being optimistic is all about. Optimism doesn’t mean that we should hide our negative emotions and just sweep them under the rug. It means that we need to be more attentive to both our negative and positive emotions in order to be able to move beyond the stress and uncomfortableness of the times. It can be a tool of sorts to deal with the uncertainty and anxiety we are all feeling.

asian woman sitting on the floor holding a sign that portrays staying optimistic.

Practice Self-Compassion

Stop being so hard on yourself! Our worth is unconditional. We cannot control everything that happens in our lives or in our world. In stressful times, it is important to be kind to ourselves not only for our physical health but our mental health as well. This can help with lessening our anxiety, stress, and depression.

Remember that we are all going through these trying times of the Coronavirus together. Nobody is facing this alone. Self-compassion is about being kind to ourselves while realizing that all of us are just doing our best to navigate through these crazy times together.

Woman outside breathing in the fresh air and practicing staying optimistic.Practicing mindfulness is part of having self-compassion. Mindfulness is allowing yourself to be aware of your emotions, thoughts, and feelings and accepting them for what they are in that very present moment. It does not involve dwelling about the past or spending time imagining the future. Make every minute count. If you are spending time with your children, really get engaged and listen. If you are outside taking a walk, really try to enjoy all of the sights and smells in the air. Sometimes it is hard to slow down and take note of all the little things we take for granted each day.

Seek Pleasure in The Small Things

Lean in! During this time of social distancing and quarantine, it may seem as though there are fewer and fewer options on how we spend our days. Really take the time to enjoy the everyday activities that were just part of our daily routines we went on mindlessly about prior to now. The otherwise ordinary activities like making your morning coffee, walking the dog, or helping your child with their homework can be a welcome distraction from the flow of bad news.

Do you ever look back at pictures of moments in the past and smile, laugh, or get a sense of “feeling” that very moment again? Well, let’s take the time to really appreciate each moment now as we try to stay optimistic. We may look back and wish we would have enjoyed these moments just a little bit more.

Give Back Within Your Community

You can support your local businesses and help keep them optimistic during the Coronavirus by buying gift cards from them for future meals when times get better and we can share meals together. You can also help by ordering takeout meals from them in the meantime.

You can also send money to a cause or non-profit you believe in. Giving can make you feel good, which in turn helps the organization and gives a boost to your mental and physical health. We are all trying to make the world a better place and by giving, we are bringing about positive change.

Man typing on a computer performing a search.Giving back within your community can also be as simple as practicing random acts of kindness that don’t have to be monetary. Send an email to a family member or friend to just show some appreciation. Leave thoughtful comments on a friend’s social media account. Put a note in your mailbox for your mailman to discover thanking him or her for delivering important mail and being out and about during the Coronavirus. Everyone benefits from acts of kindness, generosity, and thoughtfulness.

Check-in with your neighbors while keeping a safe distance can help make them feel special and make you feel good at the same time. Remember, we are in this pandemic together and when we show that we care for other’s wellbeing, we are reminded that there are other people that may be more stressed than ourselves.

Exercise, Eat, and Sleep Well

This one is very obvious, of course, but these basic habits all have a huge effect if they are not correctly managed. Now that we are all basically confined to our homes, we may be snacking more, staying up later to watch one more episode of our current favorite mini-series, or putting off getting in a good workout since the gyms are still closed. Not sticking to a good diet, not getting a good night’s rest, and not exercising can really impact one’s thoughts and tensions on the inside.Man stretching his legs on bridge to get ready to take care of his physical well-being.

Get moving, take a walk, breathe some fresh air, and be mindful of what you are putting in your body. Turn the television off at a specific time each night and stick to a plan. You will thank yourself later when you aren’t trying to lose that weight you may have put on not taking care of yourself and your mind.

Take Inventory at the End of Each Day

At the end of each day, acknowledge something positive that you accomplished or are grateful for. When we think about things that made us smile, laugh, or be productive throughout the day, it helps squash the pessimism or negativity we absorbed surrounding the COVID-19 pandemic. This behavior can help remind us that not everything that’s happening right now is depressing or unmanageable. Staying optimistic can be challenging, but we can all help each other in small ways that can make a big difference.

And just as equally important, we at Personally Delivered are here if you need us and just a phone call away! Stay safe. Stay healthy. Stay connected.

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